What should we do with our disappointment, frustration, and fear?

 

Scripture Readings: 1 Peter 1.3-7; 5.6-8; Micah 3.5-12; Psa 43; Matt 23..1-12

 Prayer of Invocation

 Father, it is only by your gift that your faithful people offer you acceptable worship: Grant that we may run without stumbling to obtain your promises; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.

 Proclamation

 I’m going to go out on a limb and say that 2020 has been a disappointing year for all of us. We’ve not only had to deal with a disruptive pandemic that has altered church, work, home life, school, sports,  and entertainment, and a resurgence of racial tensions across the country and in our own community, but we also have been in the midst of a polemical and polarized presidential election that looks to only widen the divide we are experiencing in our country. 

 And in the midst of all this, we have our frustrations and disappointments that have nothing to do with Covid, or the election, or the racial strife, but have certainly been agitated by them. For some it is a health issue--either emotional or physical; for others it is finances; for many it is a relationship, whether family or friend, that leaves you wounded, worried, frustrated, disappointed. Others are struggling with direction, meaning, and purpose, wondering what life is for. 

 Let me go out on another limb: these disappointments and frustrations are not going away any time soon, and may even become more acute in the wake of Nov 3 and a second or third wave of Covid. So what are we going to do? How should we respond? What resources are there to help us navigate these disappointments, frustrations, and fears?

Our readings from 1 Peter this morning offer us a story and a charge to keep us grounded in these agitating times. These readings are the first and last word that Pastor Pete offers to a community that is struggling with deep disappointment--for life is not turning out the way they anticipated. Their allegiance to Jesus has not brought immediate peace, prosperity, and relational flourishing. Instead, it has only seemed to make things more challenging.

 So Peter starts by orienting his readers and us with a story, a story that starts with the punchline (1.3). And the punchline points us to God--it encourages us to look up from the midst of our frustrations and disappointments to see a good and powerful God who is working all things to His glory. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ!” But why? Why is that a fitting thing to say? 

 Because He has given us a living hope. That is an interesting adjective, living. Why add that to the word hope? Because our hope is not an idea or an ideal, it is the crucified and resurrected Jesus Christ! He is our hope. Jesus is the firstfruits, the prototype of what God is doing in this world--making all things new through frustration, disappointment, and suffering. This living hope is further described as an incorruptible inheritance that awaits us, a salvation that is being guarded for us by the power and faithfulness of God! This is our foundational source of joy! God is preparing for us a world, a way of life, that is ultimately satisfying, full of peace and wholeness. He is preparing and guarding it. And he will bring it to being. 

 But the road to our inheritance, the way to our salvation is through trials. It is significant that this is the word that Peter uses to describe what we are all going through. He doesn’t use the word suffering, or disappointment, or frustration, or hardship. Instead, he uses the word “trial” or “test”. He does this because he wants us to think about our disappointments, frustrations, and suffering in a new way--as tests of our allegiance; as trials that provide us an opportunity to strengthen our allegiance or faith in Jesus. These trials, Peter argues, provide us the opportunity to place our trust in God. They liberate us from our many idols, from those other things that tend to distract us from God. And here is the shocking point that Peter makes: when we endure these disappointments, frustrations, and suffering as trials or tests, when Jesus returns He will give us praise, glory, and honor! 

 This is the story that Peter tells us and wants us to tell ourselves. God has given us new birth to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus. This Jesus will return to honor those who have been faithful to Him. This is our joy in the midst of a variety of trials--tests to prove our faith to be genuine. This is his first word to us. 

 His final word is a charge. And the charge once again points us to God. “Humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God”. Put yourself in the rightful place, under God. So often the disappointments and frustrations that we experience come because we have displaced God, because we have placed our agendas, our visions, our plans, our perceptions, our strategies, our expectations above what God is doing in and through us. So Peter exhorts us--humble yourselves (literally, place yourself underneath God). 

 And God, in His timing, will exalt you to the place you belong. This might be the hardest part--waiting on God’s timing. And so the story that Peter tells  reminds us that as we wait for God’s timing we can be confident that our day will come. We only need to look to Jesus, our living hope, to see that all things will be made new. 

 But what’s really illuminating about this passage is the way in which Peter encourages us to humble ourselves. See, the main verb in this passage is “humble yourselves” but it is supported by the clause “casting all your anxieties on him”.  What Peter is saying is that the way we humble ourselves is by casting our anxieties or cares on God. This is one way that we displace ourselves, one way that we lower ourselves under God’s mighty hand--by refusing to make ourselves the lord and savior of our cares and anxieties! You see often anxiety or worry come when we have misplaced confidence in our own ability to control our world and the situations that come our way. It is often when we place ourselves at the center, our perceptions and judgments as the true vision of reality that we find ourselves paralyzed by anxiety and worry. That is to say that worry and anxiety are often signs that we have displaced God and made ourselves the lord and savior of our world. (Having said that, not all anxiety is idolatry! There are other reasons for anxiety, some of which come from trauma and even chemical reactions in our bodies.) 

 But if we are going to cast our anxieties or our cares upon God, then we have to know what it is that we are worrying about, what it is that concerns us, what it is that produces anxiety in our lives. Most of us live with a general feeling of anxiety and concern. Most of us would agree that we quite naturally worry about things. But this text reminds us that we must be able to name our cares and anxieties if we are going to cast them on God. This takes work! This takes patient soul-searching. This means we must take the time to know ourselves, to ponder what concerns us and why. It takes being patient with the Holy Spirit, who seeks to show us where our misplaced hopes are. It means looking at the circumstances of our lives and asking, How is this concern or worry pressing me to trust in God? How is this disappointment or frustration testing my faith? 

 So the challenge is moving beyond our general feeling of anxiety and worry by naming the specific things that we worry about. This requires us to be watchful, as Peter says. To be sober-minded--to not be carried away by the fear and the worry. 

And in so doing, we humble ourselves under God’s mighty hand of deliverance. 

 And why should we do this? Why should we cast our cares on God? Because he cares for you! And how do we know that He cares for us? We look at the Table.

 Eucharist

 At the Table we see God meeting our greatest needs, cares that we didn’t even know we had! At the Table we see that God’s solution to our greatest problems would never have been planned or strategized by us in this way! We come to the Table to humble ourselves, for we are not the lords and saviors of our world. But the Lord of all has humbled himself for our sake, so that we can share in fellowship with the life of God. 

 Reflection and Discussion Questions

 

  1. What is the story that Peter tells in 1 Peter 1.3-7 and how does it orient us to God?
  2. What difference does it make to think of disappointments and frustrations as trials or tests?
  3. How can  worry and anxiety reveal misplaced trust?
  4. What are you worrying about now?

 Benediction

 After you have suffered a little while, the God of grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you. To him be the dominion forever and ever. Amen. 

1 Peter 5.10-11

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